All the butterfly feelings, excitement of being together, loving each other, cuddling, desire to spend quality time together is no more, then its time to recreate spark of love with your husband. You have been so busy with household, children, job, responsibilities that you have lost sight of your relationship and honeymoon, outings are just things of past. After years of marriage you forget to express love, appreciate each other, and never have a chat other than children and duties. Things are going to get worse in coming years. Life partners are bonded by love, an important aspect that you need to nurture. Here are important ways to find your lost love with your husband.
1. MAKE HIM FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN:
Yes! You heard it right. Has your husband stopped giving compliments, its because you forgot to love yourself. Caring for others so much that you never paid attention to the way you look, way you dress up. Start giving some importance to your appearance. Going out with him, get well dressed so that he cannot resist complimenting you. Even compliment him back, that he still look that handsome.
2. MAKE EFFORTS TO MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL:
Having very busy schedule? Children, carrier, job have taken over your marriage. Take time out of your busy life to spend with each other. Plan a outing, a dinner once in a month, talk about that good old days when you were in so much of love with each other, sort out the problems if any. If can’t go out, make some efforts to plan a candle light dinner in your room, decorate with flowers, some light music, that will make him feel special and you can talk some love again.
3. BE EACH OTHERS BEST FRIENDS:
After years of marriage, you feel like you are sharing your room with a roommate, the roommate who pays your bills, take care of children. Friendship is the best relation that lasts longer, you need to be each other’s best friends first, sharing problems, fears and hope without being afraid and judgmental. This friendship with further stronger you bond of love.
4. EXPRESS YOUR LOVE IN MATURE WAYS:
Try to be your husband’s strength, whenever he is in his low. Always be on his side and make him feel that you can fight the whole world for him. Express your love in mature ways by supporting, making him feel special, respecting him, rather than just buying him flowers and gifts that doesn’t prove anything.
5. STOP NAGGING & START APPRECIATING:
Fighting and arguments is a disease that can infect your relationship. One must stop nagging over small issues. The main reasons for fight are money matters, not sharing responsibilities of children or sometimes difference in likings. It usually takes two people for an argument, in order to avoid it one must not participate. Instead share your responsibilities, have mutual understanding, and courage to accept each others negative points.