Have your married life or long-term relationship become dull or monotonous? Have your relationship lost that spark of love that you use to feel for each other? After certain time, its natural that our feeling starts to dissipate as every relationship needs care and feeding. It’s not that we hate each other or don’t love; but we start to take each other for granted, that is, you lose the fear of losing each other. Most of your conversations are about work, children and responsibilities.
Here are 5 ways to refill your relationship with love and nourishing your bond. Good news is that you are already one step closer by reading this article as you are taking initiative to make your relationship healthier.
Being busy in your daily chores, one forgets to express love and care. So, one of the you need to take initiative to add spontaneity in your relationship. Don’t let ‘WHY ME?’ ruin your bond. Always find some ways to express your love for your partner, like just dropping a ‘ LOVE YOU’ message in his or her inbox. Spare some time from your busy schedule to cook his or her favorite dish just to bring a priceless smile on their face or get the most loved thing for them. If you make efforts, other will surely respond you back with even more you love.
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
Have your partner stopped complimenting you or noticing you? Then surely you must be at fault. Remember the days when you dated, you tried your best to look good to get his or her appreciation. Where are those feelings gone? Start loving yourself by caring for your looks by maintaining good physique, good dressing and maintaining good hygiene. Surely your partner will notice you and respond. Try it!!
PLAN A DATE WITH OLD MEMORIES
One gets frustrated following same routine, dealing with same problems and work schedule. Play a rewind button in your life by planning a date with old memories like weeding pictures, honeymoon memories or sharing some old funny moments. By this you create some new precious moments that helps you rebuild your relationship stronger.
Scientifically it’s been proven that holding hands, hugging and tender love releases Oxycontin that helps in reducing stress and make you more emotionally attached to person. So often holds hands in all good and bad moments of your partner that will assure them of your presence.
MAKE YOUR BEDROOM NO PHONE ZONE
Mobile phones are main cause for breaking marriage as it leads to less communication and more of misunderstandings. Make a rule not to use when you are with your partner unless very urgent.