From very beginning, woman is considered physically & emotionally weak as she cannot stand for herself; someone who use tears as her weapons and need a husband or a man to protect her. But now time has changed. Women need to break this stereotype and rise above all.
Here’s the definition to a strong woman: the one who don’t play victim to situation, who can stand for her dreams and choice, who can earn her own living, who don’t overthink about what others would say, who can protect herself from social evils and many more.
Being a strong and independent woman is about being positive, confident and fearless. Most women enjoy being independent, physically and mentally strong, but reaching there can be challenging as defeating social odds can be difficult. But here are some tips to become a strong and wonderful woman:
SHATTER THE IDEA OF GENDER INEQUALITY
Women have always been oppressed and not considered equal to men both in terms of physical, emotional and financial terms. But remember, it’s a woman who gives birth to man. God has given this unique blessing to only women. You need to get rid of this inequality from your mind to rise above.
BUILD YOUR CAREER AND BE INDEPENDENT
Recognize your capabilities and find a suitable career to have financial stability in your life. Most working women feel satisfied and happy. Take up your job with compassion and achieve the best. Enjoy happiness on your own terms.
What others think is none of your business. Don’t overthink about things you cannot change or have control over. Strong women just focus on their present goals and needs. Haters always do it intentionally to divert your focus towards unwanted things. Set your goals clear.
DON’T BE AFRAID TO CHALLENGE YOURSELF
Just like stagnant water starts to smell after some time, you have to keep going; discovering your strengths and weaknesses and working on them. If you face hardships, try to come out of them, becoming stronger and more confident.
Everyone has to go through difficult times and task to achieve something. A strong woman is never afraid to do that. Just like Sita could have chosen an easy way to stay at Ayodhya, when Lord Ram was exiled for 14 years, but she decided to go with her husband. It is not easy to do but it is worth it.
FOLLOW A ROLL MODEL & BE A ROLE MODEL
A strong women always have a person whom she can look up to, whose life journey inspires her to achieve high. She should also try to be the one who inspires other women by setting an example of excellence and positivity. If you have a dream, make an action plan and work on it. No matter if people around you try to drag you down. NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAM.
DON’T BE A VICTIM
If in a relationship, you are not treated good or loyalty is missing then instead of shedding tears, have courage to let go of that relationship. Don’t be a victim in that case. Love and respect nourish the relation; if that is missing “Give up” and find a true partner.
TAKE A STAND FOR YOURSELF AND HELP OTHERS
A strong women takes time to form an opinion and once she makes up her mind, no one can change her. Take a stand for things that you know are right, even if everyone is against it. Also, a strong woman always helps other women to rise. Encourage other women to fight all the odds, no matter how hard it is.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
Eat healthy, exercise and have a good night sleep to maintain a good health.